Pehea e haʻi ai inā makemake kahi kāne iā ʻoe
"A makemake au iā ʻoe, makemake au iā ʻoe, makemake au iā ʻoe ..." Mai ka wā kamaliʻi, ʻo mākou, nā kaikamahine, ua hoʻomau pinepine ʻole ʻia e nā mākua: "ʻO ke keikikāne ka mea mua e ʻōlelo ua makemake ʻo ia iā ʻoe, ʻo ke kāne ka mea mua e hōʻike iā ʻoe i nā hōʻailona o ka nānā, ʻo ke kāne ka mua e haʻi iā ʻoe ua aloha ʻo ia ..." No laila ke kali nei mākou - nā kaikamahine mua, a laila nā kaikamahine, a laila nā wahine - akā ke alakaʻi mau nei kēia makapō i nā hopena maikaʻi a pehea e maopopo ai makemake kahi kāne iā ʻoe?
ʻO ka hapalua kāne o ke kanaka, ma muli o nā ʻano psychological kūlohelohe, ʻaʻole like me ka hāmama, ka naʻau a me ka pololei e like me ka wahine, a ʻaʻole kamaʻilio pololei e pili ana i ko lākou mau manaʻo, makemake e hoʻokuʻu i nā mea āpau iā ia iho. No laila pehea ʻoe e hoʻoholo ai inā makemake kahi ʻōpio iā ʻoe a i ʻole inā nānā wale ʻo ia ma muli o ke ʻano hanohano? E manaʻoʻiʻo iaʻu, ʻaʻole paʻakikī ke aloha kāne e wehe ana. E kōkua kahi ʻike liʻiliʻi a me ka nānā haʻahaʻa ʻana e hoʻomaopopo i kēia pilikia.
ʻO nā hōʻailona maʻamau o ke aloha i nā kāne
Ke hele aku i kahi lā, e mākaukau e nānā pono. ʻOi aku ka haʻahaʻa o ka naʻau o nā kāne ma mua o nā kaikamahine a ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hōʻino iā lākou no kēlā. Nui a hewahewa nā hōʻailona e kumakaia koke aku i ko lākou minamina.
- Nā Hōʻike Manaʻo. ʻ communicationlelo kamaʻilio waha ʻole - waha waha ʻole ka waha: hiki iā mākou ke ʻōlelo i kekahi mea, wahaheʻe, hāmau, akā e hāʻawi nō ke kino. Inā aloha ke kāne, wikiwiki ʻo ia i ka mea o ke aloha: ʻo ka hapanui o ka manawa ke nānā ʻo ia i nā maka a i ʻole i nā lehelehe, minoʻaka, "aniani" me ka maopopo ʻole i kāu mau ʻōniʻoniʻo, hoʻāʻo e hoʻopā. Aia kekahi i kapa ʻia ʻo "kuhi o ka preening": me he mea lā he mea ʻokoʻa kēia i nā kaikamahine wale nō, akā ʻo ke kāne, e makemake ana e ʻoluʻolu i ka mea o ke aloha, hiki iā ia ke hoʻomaʻamaʻa i kona lauoho, hoʻoponopono i kona kola pālule a hana i nā hana ʻē aʻe āna i ʻike ʻole ai.
- Hoʻomaka. He kanaka hahai holoholona maoli kahi kāne i ke aloha: makemake ʻo ia e lilo i kahi manawa me ʻoe e like me ka hiki, no laila e hoʻomaka ʻo ia i ke kamaʻilio pū no nā kumu liʻiliʻi. Pōloli? E hele kāua i ka cafe, mālama wau! Pono e hoʻoponopono i kahi mea ma ka home? Hiki iaʻu ke lawelawe, loaʻa iaʻu nā pono hana! Pono e kiʻi i nā ʻeke kaumaha mai ka hale kūʻai? ʻEā, pahee ia i ke alanui, hāʻule ʻoe! A pēlā aku ... Mai nānā ʻole i kēia ʻoluʻolu.
- ʻAʻakaʻaka. ʻO ke kāne me kahi ʻano hoʻomākeʻaka ka moe a kēlā wahine kēia wahine, a maopopo pono i nā kāne i kēia. ʻAʻole makehewa ka ʻōlelo a lākou: "inā makemake ʻoe e aloha i ka wahine, e ʻakaʻaka ʻoe." No laila e ʻakaʻaka me ka ʻoluʻolu a me ka maopopo e hoihoi ʻoe.
- Mālama. E manaʻoʻiʻo iaʻu, ʻaʻole ʻoe e huikau me ka hoʻomeamea maikaʻi ʻole: e hoʻāʻo nui kahi kāne i ke aloha e ʻoluʻolu iā ʻoe, a he mea hiki ʻole ke nānā ʻole. E kōkua ʻo ia i ke ola o kēlā me kēia lā a ma ka hana, hāʻawi i kona lima i ka wā e puka ana i ka halihali, e lawe i kahi kuʻe lima ma kahi ala hele paheʻe, e hoʻopaʻa i kahi pale ma luna o kou poʻo, e hopohopo no kou olakino, ʻano, a nīnau pehea kou lā i hele ai.
- Makana. I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, hewa ia e ana i ke aloha i nā makana: ʻaʻole i kēlā me kēia kālā a loaʻa ʻole ke kālā e hiki ai ke hāʻawi i nā makana i kā lākou mea aloha, keu hoʻi i ka wā o kahi haumāna kula kiʻekiʻe a i ʻole haumāna makahiki mua i loaʻa ʻole ka manawa e loaʻa ai kahi hana hapa manawa. Akā e manaʻoʻiʻo iaʻu: inā makemake maoli kahi kāne iā ʻoe, e loaʻa iā ia kahi ala e ʻoluʻolu ai iā ʻoe, inā pono - a ʻo nā pua hoʻi mai kahi moena pua.
Hoʻolālā wikiō
Pehea e haʻi ai inā makemake kahi kāne iā ʻoe ma ke kula
ʻOiai ua hoʻomanaʻo mākou i nā haumāna o ke kula kiʻekiʻe, e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ke kula. Hoʻohana mākou i ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i nā keikikāne ʻōpio e hōʻike hōʻino i ke aloha, i kekahi manawa me ka ikaika ʻole: hoʻomākeʻaka lākou, pin a, a i kekahi manawa "poke" kino, huki i ka lauoho, pākuʻi iā lākou e hele aʻe. Me he mea lā iā lākou e hūnā lākou i ko lākou mau manaʻo, akā ʻike maopopo loa mākou nā kaikamahine: ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, eia nā hōʻailona mua o ke aloha aloha. ʻAʻole ʻoe e huhū i kēlā ʻano hana, no ka mea, he mau hiʻohiʻona kikoʻī kēia.
Eia nō naʻe, hōʻike kekahi o nā haumāna i ke aloha i kekahi ʻano ʻokoʻa. Hiki iā lākou ke pale i ka mea o ko lākou mau manaʻo mai ka hoʻouka ʻana o nā kāne ʻē aʻe, hāʻawi iā "valentines", kōkua i ka lawe ʻana i kahi ʻeke i ka home, hāʻawi i ke kōkua a noi no kahi pane ("e kākau wau i ka physics, a naʻu e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i Lūkia").
ʻAʻole hoʻokahi laina o ka lawena hoʻokahi wale nō pololei: ʻo ke au o ke kula ka manawa ke hoʻomaka nei nā homone e "hoʻomoʻa", nā manaʻo hou a me nā manaʻo e like me ka hoʻomaopopo ʻole a makaʻu hoʻi, a pono i nā kāne i ka manawa nui e ʻae iā lākou a hoʻomaopopo iā lākou iho.
Nā hōʻailona o nā penpals makemake
ʻO ke kenekulia 21 ia, ʻo ia hoʻi he hapa nui o ke ola i loko o nā pūnaewele o nā pūnaewele kaiaulu. Maʻaneʻi, nakinaki ʻia nā hoa aloha ʻelua a aloha hoʻi. Akā inā i ke ola maoli hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻoholo i ka makemake o kahi kāne e nā ʻōuli a me nā ʻano kūwaho he nui, a laila aia kekahi mau mea pilikino i ka kamaʻilio Pūnaewele.
- Kakau mua. Inā makemake kahi kanaka ʻōpio āu e kamaʻilio ai ma o ka leka ʻana iā ʻoe, a ʻo ia ka mea mua e wikiwiki e ʻōlelo i ke kakahiaka maikaʻi a nīnau inā ua lawa kou hiamoe a he aha kāu mau hoʻolālā no ka lā, ʻaʻole ia e maliu nui iā ʻoe.
- Hoihoi i ke kamaʻilio ʻana. Nīnau i nā nīnau pilikino, hāʻawi i nā pane kikoʻī, ʻaʻole e hoʻokuʻu no kahi manawa lōʻihi. Ma ka nui, ʻaʻole kamaʻilio nui nā kāne, makemake lākou i ka hoʻomākeʻaka a me ke kamaʻilio ʻana i nā kumuhana laulā, akā inā ʻoe e ʻike he lōʻihi, lōʻihi hohonu, hoʻopili i nā ʻano pili o ke ola, hoihoi ʻo ia. Eia hou, e hōʻole loa kahi kāne aloha e ʻae iā ʻoe e hele i ka ʻoihana a i ka moena paha. E hoʻāʻo ʻo ia i nā ala āpau e hoʻopaneʻe iā ia a hiki i kekahi manawa.
- Nā Smily, nā pepili, nā kiʻi. He manawa kūpono ka Pūnaewele a me nā ʻoihana pūnaewele e hoʻokaʻaʻike i ka kamaʻilio me ka ʻike audiovisual. Inā makemake kahi kāne iā ʻoe, e hoʻohana ʻo ia i kēia manawa kūpono: e kau ʻo ia i nā emoticons, e hoʻouna i nā pepili, e hōʻike i nā kiʻi nani a hoʻomākeʻaka, kaʻana like i nā mele a me nā wikiō wikiō.
- Makemake, repost, ʻōlelo. ʻO kekahi ala e hōʻike ai i ke aloha: e manaʻoʻiʻo iaʻu, e mālama pono kahi kāne i ke aloha i kāu mea hou ma VKontakte a me Instagram i mea e lilo ai i mea mua e makemake ai, repost a kākau paha i nā ʻōlelo: "Nani ʻoe!".
- Nā lili. ʻAʻohe mea maʻalahi ma mua o ka hoʻoholo ʻana ma ka leka ʻana inā lili paha kahi kāne iā ʻoe: e hōʻike iā ia e hele ana ʻoe i ka hale kiʻiʻoniʻoni i ke ahiahi, akā mai ʻōlelo me ka mea pololei. Inā lili kahi kāne ʻōpio, e ninini koke i ka wehewehe ʻana i nā nīnau.
Nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo wikiō
Pehea e hōʻike ai i kahi kanaka i kāna makemake
No laila ua hoʻoholo ʻoe e makemake ke kāne iā ʻoe. He aha ka maikaʻi - makemake ʻoe iā ia pū kekahi. Pehea e hōʻike ai iā ia me ka unobtrusively, akā maʻalahi? Eia kekahi ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo maʻamau.
- E hoʻopuni iā ia me ka mālama a me ka nānā i ka hoʻihoʻi. Hōʻike i kou hoihoi, nīnau e pili ana i kāna leʻaleʻa, nānā i ke ola, ʻike honua, manaʻo ma kekahi mau pilikia. Kono iā ia i ka hale no ka ʻaina awakea, kuke i kahi mea ʻono. Kūʻai i ka pāpale pumehana a i ʻole ke pāʻani wikiō āna i makemake nui ai. E hoʻolohe i kāna mau makemake - no laila e hoʻomaopopo ʻo ia ʻaʻole ʻoe e palaka iā ʻoe.
- Minoʻaka, hana i ka maka a me ke kino pili. ʻO ka pili kino kahi mea nui o ka pilina e ulu nei. Inā ʻoluʻolu ke kanaka ʻōpio iā ʻoe, e hoʻopili mālie i kahi mamao: e ʻapo iaʻu i ke aloha, honi i ka pāpālina, e hoʻoluliluli mālie i kou lima.
- Flirt, hoʻomākeʻaka, hoʻomaikaʻi. Hoʻomaha a hoʻomaha. E mahalo maoli ʻo ia i kou nānā a me kou hoihoi.
Nā hiʻohiʻona o ka hōʻike o ke aloha i nā kāne o nā hōʻailona zodiac ʻokoʻa
Pehea e ʻike ai nā kāne o nā hōʻailona zodiac i ke aloha:
- ʻO Aries - ikaika, ikaika, hoʻoholo, i kekahi manawa hiki ke kūʻē i kāu mau makemake a hana i mua.
- keiki bipi - ʻaʻole makemake e hōʻike i nā manaʻo a me nā manaʻo, ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka hoʻoholo ʻana i kāna minamina e ka ʻōlelo hōʻailona a me ke ʻano iā ʻoe.
- Māhoe - me kēia maʻalahi nā mea āpau: e ʻōlelo pololei ʻo ia makemake ʻo ia iā ʻoe.
- Kanesa - mālama, nānā, nāwaliwali.
- he liona He hōʻailona zodiac kūpona a loaʻa hoʻi ia, no laila ʻaʻole ʻo ʻoe wale nō, akā ʻo ka poʻe āpau e ʻike e pili ana i kāna aloha.
- Virgo - ke aloha ʻana, nā kuhi ʻoluʻolu, nā ʻōlelo hoʻomākeʻaka ʻole, nā hoʻāʻo mālie e aʻo hou iā ʻoe no ʻoe iho, e hōʻike maopopo ʻaʻole ia e ʻoluʻolu ʻole iā ʻoe.
- Libra - ke aloha a me ke aloha, no laila e hoʻokahuli wale ʻo ia iā ʻoe me nā mahalo.
- Scorpio - hūnā pinepine, no laila ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi e nīnau e pili ana i ke aloha me ka pololei, inā ma ke ala - e hoʻonā ʻia ka hihia, inā makemake ʻoe iā ia - e hoʻoliʻiliʻi wale nō kāu kuhikuhi.
- Sagitarius - lili honua ʻole, ʻimi e hoʻolōʻihi i ka manawa me ka mea o kāna aloha.
- ʻO Capricorn - kūpono, no laila ʻo ka mea mua e hana ai he wikiwiki e kōkua me nā hana o ka hale.
- ʻApelika - kūʻokoʻa, akā inā ʻoe makemake ia, e hint ia e pili ana iā ia me ka flankting frank.
- Nā iʻa - hilahila maʻamau, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka noi pololei ʻana.
Pehea e hana ai i ka lā mua
E kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka lā mua - pehea e hana ai i kahi ala e hana ai i kahi manaʻo maikaʻi a lanakila i ke aloha a mākou i kamaʻilio nui ai?
- ʻO ka mea mua, hoʻomaha a hoʻāʻo e kūlohelohe. E like me kāu e ʻike ai, ʻo ka ʻōlelo ʻōuli ke ala maikaʻi loa e heluhelu ai i nā manaʻo a me nā naʻau āpau, no laila he mea nui e hoʻomaha a mai hopohopo ʻole. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, ʻaʻole ka lā mua kahi male, a ʻaʻole hoʻoholo ʻia kāu hopena ma aneʻi a me kēia manawa. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake i kekahi i kekahi, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻopuehu me ka ʻeha ʻole i ʻike ʻole ʻoe i kekahi i kekahi.
- Inā noi ʻia ʻoe e koho i kahi hālāwai, ʻaʻole pono e hāʻule ke koho ma ka hale ʻaina ʻoi loa ke kumukūʻai o ke kaona. ʻO kahi lā, ʻo ka mea mua loa, ka kamaʻilio ʻana, a me ka ʻike ʻole i nā hiki kālā o kahi hoa pili. E hoʻohaʻahaʻa.
- E ʻike ma mua i ka mea a ke kanaka ʻōpio āu e hele pū ai me ka lā e makemake ai. Inā kamaʻāina ʻole kāna leʻaleʻa iā ʻoe, e heluhelu e pili ana iā ia i loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi mea e kamaʻilio ai. Eia kekahi, e mākaukau e leo a kūkākūkā i kāu mau makemake ponoʻī.
- E ʻike pono i ka hiamoe ma mua o kou lā aloha no ka mea he mea nui ia iā ʻoe ke nānā aku i ka maikaʻi. Hoʻomaʻemaʻe iā ʻoe iho, koho i nā lole kūpono. Mai ʻaʻahu hōʻino ma lalo o nā kūlana!
- E kau pono i ka manawa. ʻO ka nūhou e lohi iki paha ka wahine he kaʻao.
I ka hopena o ka ʻatikala, makemake wau e ʻōlelo he paʻakikī nā pilina, akā ʻaʻole naʻe e like me ka manaʻo o ka hapanui o mākou. Mai makaʻu e hōʻike aku i ke aloha a kamaʻāina, hoʻolana, leʻaleʻa i ka nānā kāne, pānaʻi - e mālamalama loa ke ola me kēia!